AIO. This guy from my class

[u/Sad-Economist-2688]

My teacher told me to socialize more with my classmates. Im a shy person. This boy I sit with started chatting with me then asked me for my Instagram. I was really happy since I dont have many friends.

First day of talking and three messages later I get this. Am I overreacting? Is this some sort of humor I just don't get? I'm not sure how to feel but I don't even feel comfortable to sit with him anymore.

Excuse my broken grammar and the dry humor in the photos provided please :(

[u/goodthanksforasking]

He went off his rocker there, but, I mean he said several times it was a weird question and you did say don't care, and opened the door. Your thoughts? for the record, what he said at the end was not called for, so yes thats not cool.

[u/Affectionate-Act3980 → u/goodthanksforasking]

Fuck, you’re disgusting.

[u/goodthanksforasking → u/Affectionate-Act3980]

Seriously? That's hurtful. The OP has asked if theyre overreacting, and all I said was the guy on the other end did say he was going to ask a very weird question...

You sound as bad as the guy with that hurtful comment.

[u/kraterios → u/goodthanksforasking]

Weird ≠ rape.

Are you the guy from her message by any chance? Because whining about getting hurt definitely sounds like that micro dicked POS.

[u/goodthanksforasking → u/kraterios]

No. You need to read the comment again. He says he will ask a really weird question. She goes along with it, and then Im not sure but she sends a smiley emoji with size of two thumbs up??

And then he just goes nuts, and totally incriminates himself with a very offensive threat.

The whole thing is bad really, and OP shouldn't really talk to a person like that in the first place especially reply with emoji's at the first weird question... imo. those kind of guys probably have very micro...brains.

also, your language and tone towards me was a little strong and offensive. Just read my comment, and think about what I said. I'm not that bad.

[u/Affectionate-Act3980 → u/goodthanksforasking]

If he had asked, “can I ask you a really inappropriate and vulgar question?” it would have been accurate. Stop making excuses and really think about wtf you’re saying. Tone deaf af

[u/waowowwao → u/goodthanksforasking]

Ok so first, you're way off with your social cues. The smiley emoji with the two thumbs up was NOT her going along with it. To me it very clearly read as uncomfortable. She mentioned she wasn't socializing much and happy to finally make a friend, she probably didn't know how to respond to a weird ass question like that and sent an awkward emoji.

(The question alone, even without the later rape threat, would qualify as sexual harassment according to my school's definition btw. And no, it doesn't matter that he prefaced it by saying it's a weird question, this is not a normal expectation even for a "weird question". You don't ask someone you just met shit like that.)