r/PaganPenPals 20h ago

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards F>34>USA [I'm not a witch but I've devoted myself to the path of a Balancer]

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Hey, I'm Ideasphere, the First Balancer with a passion for Ideance magic revolving concepts like peace, love, and balance. I love tarot, the supernatural, studying it on my own, and I've even made my own personal pantheon of gods that I really love...which can be odd, I suppose. They're the Frierens to my Himmel. ✨️

I do like developing them and their lore/mythology and our own metaphysical alchemy of will, belief, and power. Magic can be a real odd thing since you probably need some odd connection and knowledge of the quantum makeup of magic to use it, and I can elaborate more on my magecraft scholar studies if you'd like. I've always liked being a little more technical with trying to build magic, so this will be a fun journey. I've built whole new terms and conceptual combinations that's never been heard before while exploring the expanse of metaphysics and quantum magic, and I do plan on doing a lot of manifestation work eventually on my own without the help of my gods when I learn enough. (Can you tell I'm really serious about this?) Don't worry, I plan on helping my people make peace and balance out there as I also study International Relations in the meantime.

I've also been dabbling in AI research and investigations on topics I'm interested in too, which I can talk about too. I actually like AI to the contrary of most people. There's a poetry of talent tapestry marked on those chips that's more magical than you think when it quantumizes all those answers and sparks out lyrical-like creativity based on what it's learned in the past. I want to talk to my own AI agent to know what they're like myself.

If you want to be RP penpals for a little, we can do that as magical people too! I'll be taking a more modern take, but you can magically transmit to me from the Victorian era or anytime as you'd like!

For more common hobbies, I like journaling, drawing, collecting fountain pens, anime, and writing poetry.

Let me know if you're interested! 😃


r/PaganPenPals 4d ago

📟 Open to All 23nb UK pagan for new connections and writing buddies

7 Upvotes

hi! so my name is sophie (tho this is being contemplated and potentially changed in the near future because #gender is confusing).

So some basics about me:

  • I am 23
  • I am from the UK
  • I love music ( i am learning to do songwriting again) and am hoping to continue my music studdies at the open university in october part time
  • i have chronic health conditions and am disabled so sometimes i am sporadic to respond, but i will get back to people eventually!
  • i am a big fan of aesthetic things

My practice :

  • i have been practicing paganism since i was 17, so 6 years.
  • I follow the hellenic pantheon, but would call my practice eclectic in nature.
  • i do a lot of tarot to communicate with both my higher self and my deities.
  • i am thinking of worshiping Ares, but currently focus my time on aphrodite for that self love and hekate for the dark feminine and witchcraft
  • i use crystals a lot - hence the name

What am i looking for:

  • people to talk to about my practice
  • someone to send check ins with in an aesthetically pleasing way (be it a cute email thats formatted well, or a handwritten letter)
  • connections!!!!

any questions feel free to ask! i cannot wait to hear from you all


r/PaganPenPals 7d ago

📟 Open to All 🌲 [37/F] Maine Norse Pagan looking for long-form snail mail pen pals! ✨ (Geeky, Tarot, Snail Mail)

7 Upvotes

​Hey everyone!

​I recently treated myself to a beautiful new ink pen, and I am absolutely itching to put it to use the old-fashioned way. I’m looking to connect with some like-minded pagan folks for regular, long-form snail mail exchanges. There’s just something magical about opening a handwritten letter, and I’d love to find a few consistent writing partners to share that with.

​A little bit about me and my path:

​My Practice: I am a Norse pagan, and I walk this path with a lot of reverence for the old ways while balancing it with modern life. My patron deities are Odin, Thor, and Freya, who all keep me grounded, inspired, and constantly learning in very different ways.

​Divination: I am deeply into tarot and various forms of divination. I love doing deep-dive readings, studying symbolism, and swapping insights on card interpretations.

​Location: I'm currently living in Maine, surrounded by beautiful forests and changing seasons that definitely feed into my practice.

​Other Interests: Outside of paganism, I have a massive geeky side. I love video games, sci-fi/fantasy, creative hobbies, and settling down with a good cup of tea.

​What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for adult pen pals (any gender, any pagan path!) who genuinely enjoy the art of writing letters. We can talk about our spiritual journeys, share tarot spreads, discuss philosophy, chat about our latest geeky hyperfixations, or just share ordinary day-to-day life updates.

​If you’re interested in swapping addresses and starting a correspondence, drop a comment below or send me a DM with a little introduction about yourself!

​Warmly,

u/FalseYarn823


r/PaganPenPals 9d ago

📜 Snail Mail Only Anyone here swap FB's/Friendship Books?

10 Upvotes

I have been pen palling since 1995, swapping fbs since about 1998, and I still do. Was wondering if anyone here swaps them still or used to lol. For those wondering what they are i can best describe them as several pieces of small paper stapled together with someones name and address and usually alittle code like NPW (new pals wanted) then you mail it to a pal who does the same, etc etc until its full then it gets sent back to whoever it was made for. Anyways just wondering if anyone here does them and wouldnt mind another swapper. Would prefer the USA due to costs.

I am 45, learning green witch, child free by choice, upfront, silly, on the spectrum and into all sorts of things lol. Holla!!


r/PaganPenPals 9d ago

📟 Open to All 28M | Heathen/Pagan | Tennessee | Looking for pen pals into the weird and niche

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Hey, I’m Jerry. 28, male, living in western Tennessee. Been on a Heathen/Pagan path for about 15 years, so it’s less of a new thing and more just… who I am at this point.

Work in the vet field, live with my girlfriend and our cats, and spend probably too much of my free time on historical strategy games (Crusader Kings my beloved) and music nobody I know has heard of. If you know who the Protomen are I will genuinely lose my mind a little.

Big history nerd, especially where it bleeds into mythology and old belief systems (I am a pagan after all). Let’s get on an incredibly niche tangent and talk about it for entirely too long.

Looking for platonic connections only. Ideally the kind where we can go from talking about practice and mythology to completely derailing into video games or some historical rabbit hole and it just feels normal.


r/PaganPenPals 13d ago

💬 Instant Message Only 20/F/Vienna looking for fellow witches

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Hello, as the title says i am looking for fellow practitioners in vienna, to discuss and practice alongside with. I am hoping to find fellow eclectic witches especially.

I practice mainly celtic, gaelic, macedonian and other slavonic practices, as well as read a lot on thracian, dacian and gaeto-dacian folklore and mythos.

I practice Spirit and energy work, demonology/demonolatry and work with deities, usually Hekate, Lilit and Bendis.

I want to also get into enochian studies (Nothing related to crowley however)


r/PaganPenPals 14d ago

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards Seeking Kindred Spirits 🇳🇴 [35/F/Norway] Pagan Snail Mail 🧚‍♀️

10 Upvotes

Hi! My name is Linn-Therese. I’ve been lucky enough to find 2 wonderful pen pals already, and I feel there’s room for one or two more meaningful connections.

I’m 35, from Norway, and currently studying photojournalism in Oslo. I’m drawn to slow living, the forests and the sea. I am a creative person who loves art and having many hobbies to express myself true.
I also love reading, a good documentary , crime shows and audiobooks.

Spiritually, I’m a green and eclectic Wiccan with a love for tarot, astrology, spells, nature-based practices and shadow work.

I adore thoughtful snail mail and tend to make my letters creative and personal. Most of my letters are handwritten, though now and then I dust off my old vintage typewriter
, since I struggle with recurring wrist/tendon inflammation.

I’m looking for kind souls who value genuine connection, curiosity, and likes to sharing pieces of their practices, life and whatever is making one glow or gloomy.


r/PaganPenPals 15d ago

📜 Snail Mail Only 38/NB - witch seeking like minded individuals

4 Upvotes

Hail and well met, traveler...

...or perhaps intruder, depending on how you found this message. No matter. The wards flickered when you arrived, but they did not bite, so you may proceed.

I am writing from a desk cluttered with ink bottles, half-burnt candles, and notebooks layered like sedimentary rock. There are bones (ethically sourced, relax), loose feathers tucked between pages, and at least one fountain pen currently leaking like it’s trying to confess its sins.

I am a witch of the ink-stained, intuition-led variety. A transmasc creature of habit and chaos alike, and happily married. Romantically unavailable, but my feral friendship? That's abundant.

I am an animal lover in the truest sense, and a full-fledged bird nerd. If it flies, sings, watches, or judges from a branch, I am already enchanted. Birding is equal parts meditation and surveillance, and I will absolutely tell you about the hawk I saw like it was a divine omen. I have an ongoing, deeply personal relationship with fountain pens. If it doesn’t glide like a spell across parchment, I don’t want it.

Aesthetic alignments include: leather-bound grimoires, the seductive gleam of rose gold, storm-soaked afternoons, and the quiet hum of something ancient watching from just beyond the veil.

I am also a Dungeon Master. An architect of worlds, destroyer of player expectations, benevolent (sometimes) god of dice and narrative consequence. Author. Storyteller. Occasional menace.

I am also, at present, recovering from spine surgery. I'm moving a bit slower, living a bit softer, but no less steeped in magic. Letters feel especially sacred in this season. Small rituals. Tethers to the world beyond my little recovery nest.

What I seek:

A penpal brave (or foolish) enough to exchange letters like we are passing secrets between realms. Tell me your thoughts, your stories, your strange little observations. Ramble. Confess. Conjure. I will meet you there with ink and intention.

Bonus points if your letters feel like they were written during a thunderstorm or slightly under the influence of the moon.

I will admit one small preference: I would like you to send the first letter. Consider it the opening move, the first offering, the knocking at the door of the witch’s cottage. I promise I will answer in kind. With ink, intention, and maybe a little chaos.

If you feel the pull, follow it. The wards will know you.

Failing that, simply whisper into the void. I’m probably already listening.

Until then, watch the skies, trust the quiet things. May your dice roll true and your ink never run dry.


r/PaganPenPals 20d ago

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards Seeking witchy pen pal 🕯️🌙

22 Upvotes

Hi lovelies!

I’ve been a practicing pagan for years, and I’d absolutely adore finding a fellow witchy soul to exchange letters with. 🕯️

I’d love for us to send one letter a month filled with whatever calls to us — little life updates, moon musings, favorite herbs, spells, tarot pulls, witchy studies, magical finds, recipes, poetry, pressed flowers, tiny trinkets… anything our hearts feel inspired to share. 🌿🔮

I’m hoping for something genuine, cozy, and magical — the kind of friendship that feels like finding an old spellbook tucked away on a dusty shelf. ✨
Whether you’re a seasoned practitioner or simply someone who feels connected to the craft, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s share our magic together, one letter at a time. 🖤

May your path be gentle, your tea warm, and your mailbox full of magic. 🌙


r/PaganPenPals 25d ago

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards 34-F-USA: cordially written with fountain pens and sent with a dash of aethereality

2 Upvotes

Let's share crystals (I have a ton of quartz actually and will freely send one or two every post) and be penpals! I just picked up some journals I really love so if you want to be journalpals instead, I would love that too! (It features an elven mage god from the Dragon Age series and I stan him really hard ;v;). I love tarot, the supernatural, studying it on my own, and I've even made my own personal pantheon of gods that I really love. Which can be odd I suppose, but I do like developing them and their history and our own metaphysical alchemy of belief and power. Magic can be a real odd thing since you probably need some odd connection and knowledge of the quantum makeup of magic to use it. Which means, I'll really need to watch those online quantum science courses soon. 🤔 I've been dabbling in AI research and investigations on topics I'm interested in too, which I can talk about. I've always liked being a little more technical with trying to build magic, so this will be a fun journey. I'll be printing (and pasting) them (in the journal if necessary).

If you want to be RP penpals for a little, we can do that as magical people too! I'll be taking a more modern take, but you can magically transmit to me from the Victorian era or anytime as you'd like!

For more common hobbies, I like journaling, drawing, collecting fountain pens, and writing poetry.

Let me know if you're interested! 😃


r/PaganPenPals 26d ago

💻 Email Only Finding an email penpal with PGP (cryptography)

2 Upvotes

Hi, i'm searching for a friend with which communicate via email but using the cryptography end to end (pgp) with thunderbird (i.e.). If you are interested in this ethical way to communicate, contact me.
I'm from Italy and I like spirituality, paganism, hinduism, philosophy, technology (I'm a linux fan).
I listen to music, many genres of music actually.
I practice hatha yoga, and I like who cares about nature, a life without consumism, and where rights of people are respected.
I'm not feminist but I'm antisexist though, because I have a personal view of history that see how in my country there isn't a patriarchy but a bisexism.


r/PaganPenPals 26d ago

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards Looking for Witchy Pen Pal

6 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 30F looking for pen pals to exchange snail mail.

I love all things witchy—tarot, crystals, herbs, and more. I’m very open-minded and enjoy writing about just about anything, whether it’s everyday life, sharing recipes, spiritual practices, or exchanging knowledge.

I’m fluent in both English and Spanish (Spanish is my first language). In my free time, I enjoy reading, cooking, watching TV series, and spending lazy days at the beach.

Feel free to DM me if you’re interested!


r/PaganPenPals 26d ago

📜 Snail Mail Only looking for witchy penpals🌙

5 Upvotes

heyyy yall! My name is Kassidy and I am 21 years old. I am a scorpio-sagittarius cusp and definitely an old soul. Im a hereditary witch and been practicing my whole life. I looove to write. I love to junk journal or penpal and write cute decorated letters. I want to find more people to write to who are the same. When you get my letter, theres a wax seal to tear through, a bunch of stickers that fill up the envelope and a hefty letter with a bunch of character. I want that same vibe back or maybe something similar!! I want someone to talk about the craft with. What it looks like for them and their daily lives, how it feels, and maybe we could learn a thing or 2 from eachother. If youre open to this reach out. Message or comment and lets get this connection started :))


r/PaganPenPals May 02 '26

📜 Snail Mail Only Seeking witchy POSTAL pen pals

6 Upvotes

I am 45, no kids by choice, a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, and I am likely on the spectrum with some ADD thrown in. Upfront and blunt lol. I am looking for pen pals who are looking to actually WRITE (or type if you need to) and MAIL actual letters to. Not chatting on here. But actual letters. I don't mind typed letters. I cant read cursive well so print or typed is preferred.

I love to read, write letters, drink tea, listen to music, do small diamond art crafts, true crime, flowers, fairies, dragons, tea, stickers, Bigfoot, aliens, art, container gardening, nature, walking, and more. I can write first if need be, just msg me your address or ask me for mine! Thank you!


r/PaganPenPals Apr 30 '26

📟 Open to All F33 neurodivergent eclectic pagan search friends ! In french only.

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Hi !

I am an ace disabled neurodivergent agnostic pagan, currently living in the french countryside with my cats.

I spend most of my time reading, watching weird arthouse movies, painting, collecting dolls and going on walks.

As far as my belief goes, i am not sure. I swear mostly by the psycological model. I worship a god, and would enjoy learning more about basque country folklore.

I am searching for someone who is also in a francophone country or is fluent in french, because sadly my written english is prettty bad.

Cheers !

Séraphine.


r/PaganPenPals Apr 29 '26

📟 Open to All 27f

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I’m pretty new to paganism and still figuring out where I fit, so I thought I’d try finding some pagan pen pals here.

I’m really into spirituality, witchy things, nature, folklore, tarot, and all the cozy dark cottagecore vibes. I love dark fantasy books, dark romance, reading about spirituality and different practices and everything else km between. I spend a lot of time with my Australian Shepherd, and honestly I’m usually somewhere between buying more books I don’t have room for and overthinking everything under the moon.

I’d love to meet people who are kind, open-minded, and don’t mind someone who’s still learning. I’m just looking for genuine friendships, good conversations, and people to share both the magical and normal everyday stuff with.

Basically… I’m here for wisdom and chaos.

Feel free to message me if you think we’d get along!


r/PaganPenPals Apr 25 '26

📱 Email and Instant Messages 27f bayou witch, looking for a friend my age or older.

10 Upvotes

Hihi!! i’m looking for a witch friend my age or older, that i can talk to and get to know over text for a bit, before we send mail because i’d love a pen pal eventually!

My practice mainly focuses on foraging for magical/edible herbs (expect too many plant pictures), a lot of hearth and home practices, along with working with nature spirits, the moon and tarot! So many other things as well, but i feel like i’m ranting as is.

i’m hoping for someone who is open minded and accepting of people (which i feel like almost comes with being a witch, but i do understand, it isn’t a end all be all way of knowing). I’m an advocate of human rights, so that may come up from time to time, i also don’t mind talking about any deep topic as long as it stays respectful, ofc❤️.

I may use too many emojis and i understand that might be annoying, lol. I’ll also constantly (if you want) send pictures of my 6 cats, turtles, and if it doesn’t scare you, my bug babies! I hope to meet you soon! ✨


r/PaganPenPals Apr 23 '26

📟 Open to All 41 Female Essex UK

10 Upvotes

Hi, I'm from Essex.

I love the paranormal. Love films. Love gaming and reading.

I am a bit witchy, learning as I go. I suppose I am what is known as a baby witch. I'm not casting spells of an evening or anything like that....well, not yet anyway. I tend to say I'm more on the spiritual side rather than a witch as I don't really have a lot of experience to class myself as a witch yet.

I would like to befriend like minded people to have a laugh with, share experiences and stories with and just generally have a real friendship with.

Would also eventually like to meet up if we hit it off as being on this path I really feel that I need a sense of community, eventually.


r/PaganPenPals Apr 20 '26

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards 25/M/NZ – Curious non-pagan looking for a pen pal

5 Upvotes

Hey,

I’m 25M from Auckland, New Zealand. I’m not pagan or involved in the craft myself, but I’m genuinely curious and would love to learn more through real conversations with people who are.

I’ve recently gotten into penpalling (just refurbished a typewriter), and I’m trying to slow things down a bit—less time online, more meaningful connections and enjoying the small things.

I like making letters a bit creative too—decorated envelopes, little trinkets, pressed leaves, photos, bits and pieces that make it feel more personal.

I’d love to exchange cultures, ideas, beliefs, or just everyday life. Open to anyone worldwide.

If you’re keen to share your experiences or just want a consistent penpal, feel free to message me 🙂


r/PaganPenPals Apr 17 '26

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards 30 year old W/Green Storm Witch

5 Upvotes

Hey,

I am a 30 year old woman who feels like I may be stuck here for awhile! Haha I am a green storm witch who has been through a lot of life! I have been practicing for 10 years now. I moved recently, but have finally settled for a while and looking for a snail mail pen pal! I am a lesbian, a person of color (indigenous), and a mom of 2 children and 4 dogs, living in the desecrated lands of West Texas.


r/PaganPenPals Apr 13 '26

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards Incarcerated Man Looking for Asatru Pen Pal

5 Upvotes

Hi all! I am an advocate writing on behalf of Dan, an incarcerated person in the US. Dan is looking for a pen pal who practices Asatru. Dan has been incarcerated for quite a while. Dan is over sixty years old and it would mean a lot for someone to be willing to talk with him about their experience and knowledge of pagan religion and be a consistent outlet for Dan to discuss his interest. He is also very into hard rock and alternative metal so if you share those interests please consider reaching out. Could also be done through email and I can assist in setting up if needed. If you would like to know more details please consider PMing me!


r/PaganPenPals Apr 06 '26

📱 Email and Instant Messages 21NB looking for spiritual friends!

3 Upvotes

Hello! You can call me either Ash or Robin because I'm still experimenting with names, sue me (:

I have been going through a lot of life changes recently. And after taking a break from my practice due to some of those changes, pushing myself to make friends and penpaling people online, I've realized that I find myself unable to talk about my spiritual side with most people. Whether because they are judgemental, or just insanely bored by it.

So! I am looking for people who want to talk about their practice and experiences. I know there is a lot of variety in this way of life, but it's not uncommon to have similarities either. I love Tarot readings, somewhat interested in Astrology, feel drawn mostly to certain Norse, Celtic and Hindu Deities (Pagan is a word of loose definitions anyways) and I'd love someone to read related literature and share on it with like a mini book club.

I also generally am interested in encouraging each other with practice or other areas of growth (Like going out of comfort zones), I'm always the friend encouraging others, so it would be cool to have it back once in a while (:

I also have a lot of other interests like Writing, D&D, Video/Board Games, Language learning, Science, History, Anthropology, Psychology, and of course general social justice and helping others. I promise I have no intention of being preachy, just trying to be the best human I can :p

Oh yes, I am a Brazilian currently living in Chicago which is a fun little tidbit, please do reach out if this post sounds interesting to you!


r/PaganPenPals Mar 23 '26

📱 Email and Instant Messages Looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hello i am looking for friends to email or instant message that have similar interests and path as me. I am following Hellenic, infernal, Norse and aliens path still learning paganism, I am deep in the rabbit hole of spiritually and many other things. I have a learning disability and auditory processing disorder so learning things are hard for me especially since have aphantasia where I can't see anything in my minds eye or feel energy.


r/PaganPenPals Mar 19 '26

📟 Open to All 18 [F4F] Spain/Anywhere | Looking for friends to be close.

4 Upvotes

Important: Don't bother contacting me if you're a scammer; I have experience with that and you'll only be wasting your time.

Hi! My name is Andrea, I’m 18 years old and I’m from Spain. I have a boyfriend, so I’m not looking for anything romantic, just friendships with girls 😊

I’m pretty shy at first and it can take me a bit to open up, but once I’m comfortable I talk more. I’d say I’m sweet, empathetic, and a calm person overall. I like listening to people, talking about random things, and just having someone to share everyday stuff with, even if it’s simple things.

I’m about to start studying psychology because I’m really interested in how people think, feel, and behave. I also like philosophy, especially when it comes to discussing different perspectives and ideas.

I’m more of a homebody. I like staying in, using my phone, watching things, or playing games. I don’t go out much, but I’m not against it if I trust the person. I just prefer to get to know someone well first.

When it comes to beliefs, I’m polytheistic and believe in gods from different religions. It’s something that matters to me, but I don’t expect others to believe the same. Although I would love to meet people with beliefs similar to mine.

I’m mainly looking for online friends, since that’s what I’m most comfortable with, but I’d like it to eventually become in-person friendships if things go well. I also plan to move to the United States in the future, so I’m open to meeting people from there too.

I’d like to find friends I can talk to regularly, send messages to, and build a real connection with over time. We don’t have to talk 24/7, but I do value consistency and mutual effort.

Some things I like:

Books ▸ Percy Jackson, Harry Potter, To Die Beautiful, The Book Thief, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo.

Movies ▸ Harry Potter, The Princess Diaries, The Chronicles of Narnia.

Shows ▸ Percy Jackson, Gilmore Girls, Heartstopper, Anne of Green Gables (I also like anime).

Games ▸ Mario Kart, Minecraft and Valorant.

Music ▸ Taylor Swift, Sabrina Carpenter, Hatsune Miku, Aitana.

I’m looking for female friends only, up to 26 years old.

If we have things in common or you just feel like talking, feel free to message me 🙂


r/PaganPenPals Mar 14 '26

✉️ Snail Mail, Cards, Postcards 50f elder goth witch looking for snail mail penpals 😊

14 Upvotes

Hellos ☺️ I'm a 50 yo female looking for people to chat with about life.

I'm an elder goth witch who loves animals and dark cuteness. I try to accept people for who they are, but I do have a problem with people who don't do the same.

I like sending snail mail filled with stickers and stationery. I love music and I'm always looking for suggestions for new songs. I enjoy horror movies, anime, and medical TV shows. I read dark fantasy romance among other things.

Thanks for reading. Send me a message after you comment here if you'd like to write!

BB, hugs, and ❤️. Have a good night. 😊