English is not my first language
I havent really played videogames since my childhood. Last year I played both Hades games, absolutely loved them, got +100 hours in both of those, and got all the achievements. I saw a friend of mine play silksong and I really liked the visuals; he told me I should play Hollow Knight first, that it would be too much for me, so I did, and I absolutely loved everything about it. I even beat radiance, did the white palace stuff, and two pantheons, all without looking for guides, because I didnt get frustrated by getting lost, the atmosphere was just amazing and I always felt there could be something new (And 80% of the time there was!).
It´s been the same with Silksong, even better at some points, I really like Hornet as a protagonist, she is like a wise cool old lady, the music is amazing, and i feel the story is less abstract, also the bosses, at least up to the point where Ive played, are just better (Last judge, trobio, lace, the fat guy in the kitchen, all amazing!). It is definitely more difficult, but Ive felt it somehow less punishing than Hollow Knight, I love that they let you save rosaries, so you can explore more freely without the fear of losing it all
But a week ago I got to Bilewaters, and it feels like the game doesnt want me to win or learn anything. There are things that are just annoying. (first picture) I found a bench after a really difficult platforming section and the "reward" is that I fall into the water? A BUNCH OF ENEMIES REAPPEAR, LIKE INSTANTLY, WHY WOULD THEY DO THAT. and now Im stuck in one of those rooms where I have to fight a bunch of common enemies, not a boss (I think) and its just so annoying, because theres a hard platforming section where I always lose health and theres a big chance i fall into the water and I wont be able to heal, so I cant really learn anything about the fight because I arrive really hurt to the fight.
My friend told me this game is like a "dark souls" type of game, and that it is supposed to be like this, but I just dont get it. I avoided the dark souls games, because I cant even control the camera with one stick and the character with the other, so I dont really know whats that about, but I just dont understand where the the fun is in such big punishments for "little failures", I dont care dying to bosses a trillion times, especially when they are as fun as in this game, but this, I just dont get it. I think i will probably win that room eventually, but Ive been stuck here for a week, and I play 2-3 hours every few days.
I dont even know the point of this point of this post, I guess finding support or advice, but I guess I just wanted to know if this is a normal feeling