r/AmIOverreacting • u/Nice-Community-4611 • Dec 23 '25
đ¨âđŠâđ§âđŚfamily/in-laws am i overreacting??
so i (21 F) never met my dad since i was born and last month he reached out to me the first time over instagram. i feel like he has been very pushy to meet up and i told him iâm not trying to rush things. tonight he was asking me questions to get to know me & this was one of the questions.. i never really grew up with a close male figure in my life but isnât this question weird? i didnât even answer the question when he asked i just skipped over it. itâs not his or anyoneâs business about my first kiss and itâs weird to ask anyway to me.
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u/TeddyJMe Dec 24 '25
NOR âWhat did it feel likeâ WTF?!? The question was already strange as hell out of all the things to ask you he chose that?!? This is weird and honestly if you wanna still talk to him and build a relationship, a suggestion would nip this in the bud and tell him that that question made you very uncomfortable and to please not ask questions about your romantic experiences. I was gonna say romantic and sexual and thank god it hasnât gone there fully, but kissing is on the boarder of thatâŚand he doesnât even know if it was during something sexual or just a kiss on a date or whatever was going on which makes his questions weirderâŚ. itâs odd. Some may think âMaybe he wasnât thinkingâ but the way he asked those two things leads me to think thatâs a bs excuse. Idk in the end itâs up to you on what you wanna do. Just sharing my opinion.