am i overreacting??

[u/Nice-Community-4611]

so i (21 F) never met my dad since i was born and last month he reached out to me the first time over instagram. i feel like he has been very pushy to meet up and i told him i’m not trying to rush things. tonight he was asking me questions to get to know me & this was one of the questions.. i never really grew up with a close male figure in my life but isn’t this question weird? i didn’t even answer the question when he asked i just skipped over it. it’s not his or anyone’s business about my first kiss and it’s weird to ask anyway to me.

[u/oceanmachine15]

He needs locked up

[u/drsnoggles → u/oceanmachine15]

He sounds dangerous indeed