am i overreacting??

[u/Nice-Community-4611]

so i (21 F) never met my dad since i was born and last month he reached out to me the first time over instagram. i feel like he has been very pushy to meet up and i told him i’m not trying to rush things. tonight he was asking me questions to get to know me & this was one of the questions.. i never really grew up with a close male figure in my life but isn’t this question weird? i didn’t even answer the question when he asked i just skipped over it. it’s not his or anyone’s business about my first kiss and it’s weird to ask anyway to me.

[u/Throwaway172738484u]

NOR This is extremely weird, have you confirmed this is absolutely, 100%, definitely your dad?

[u/Sea-Lead-9192 → u/Throwaway172738484u]

That was my first thought too - what if this is a stranger posing as dad? And if it’s not, that’s even ickier