r/AmIOverreacting • u/thatsweird2255 • Sep 26 '25

👥 friendship Am I overreacting here????

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For context, for my gf’s 30th birthday, her mom and I have been planing a super luxurious and decently expensive secret spa weekend for months now. It’s a secret she knows nothing about. One of my gf’s former coworkers texted and asked her if she wanted to go see a play the weekend we planned on sending her, an in a desperate attempt to preserve the secret, I texted her friend, who then responded with this. I didn’t think what I sent was rude, am I wrong here?

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u/[deleted] Sep 27 '25

Even if thats the case, it's hard for me to feel bad. She'd probably have friends if she didnt have this kind of attitude.

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u/Commercial-Store280 Sep 28 '25

You have to see that we only see this one passive aggressive :D post forcing her to cancel (not asking), at the same time the friend and GF had a conversation about the birthday which she probably said her BF wasn't doing anything for her birthday (girl talk) so she doesn't see him in a good light then being told his plan is more importantÂ