EDIT: so after reading through all the comments i decided to reach out to her best friend and told her everything. and honestly her friend found the whole thing just as ridiculous as you guys did and immediately went and talked to my girlfriend trying to knock some sense into her. now my girlfriend is mad at both of us lmaooo. but hey at least her friend and i are on the same page. will update if anything changes.
EDIT 2: Did not expect this to blow up like this so here is a quick update. GF is currently giving me the silent treatment. But the wildest part? Her best friend texted me again apologizing for the collateral damage. She said she explicitly told my GF to drop the ridiculous condition. Instead of listening, my GF lost it on her and accused her of “betraying their friendship”, "not supporting her dream" and “choosing a guy over our friendship.” So now the two of them are fighting. After reading all your comments about codependency and projecting the red flags are glaring. Im taking a few days of space to seriously re evaluate this relationship. I dont think this is just about a wedding anymore. Will update if anything changes.
This is so insane.. This girl send like she never grew up and is expecting her life to be like a Barbie dream house version and not real life. OP dodged a bullet anyway. I day that as a woman too, imagine kids with this person? She's not right
Don't you understand the daughters they were going to give birth to on the same day are destined to be best friends so everything has to work out perfect. Also their husbands must be friends too so they can all go on family vacations together.
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u/Raynefalle 12d ago
Is that in a comment somewhere? I'm interested in the friend's perspective but I couldn't find where OP said he talked to the friend about it